I had a few relationships where I felt the same way you do. For awhile everything seemed so hopeless. But in time things got better. I was also the type who did EVERYTHING possible for the person. That didn't help. I've been told that doing everything pushes them away in a sense. I don't know how that could be. I gave them everything I had...who couldn't want that, right?

Please know that you are NOT alone. I have been through this, and I'm sure many people have also. Healing takes time. Some people take longer than others. I'm one of those who take a little longer than most people to heal from things. It took me like 2 years to get over one of my serious relationships. It was really hard. At first, I didn't want to even breathe another breath without my mate. But as time went on it got a little easier to do that.

Hang in there.