Update:

Okay so after a week of us messaging back and forth... I mesasge him goodnight to which he prompts that he was only finishing up at the office (it was 10pm) can he come crash at home (he has been spending the week at his parents place, I am assuming - as I havent asked him - Im trying not to be nosy and I haven't been asked by him mom where he is). I say sure - it's still his place after all.

So he spends the night and we spend the morning cathcing up on all the programs that i still record that we enjoy watching together.

Then he is back to work as he is working a deadline. Here I was last night trying deperately not to ask him if he was coming back home... Not easy and today we have been messaging each other.

its really hard him popping in and out like this but if that's what he needs...

*Sigh*