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(JD) · Sep 04, 2011, 11:33 AM

Sweetheart you have too big of a list! The mind can't focus on so many things at once. Pick a few that you can do right now... with allowances.

One of those is to wear shorts. Just because you may be overweight (I do not know for sure...doesn't matter) doesn't mean you can't wear clothes that are the right size and, in the situation of shorts, long enough with proper fit (you don't want any front pleats, you might want elastic back etc.) There isn't anything but your frame of mind that keeps from doing this one.

Looking good for hubby is another one you can begin right now. I know you are thinking about weight only (Well, I think you are) but taking care of oneself... even when it's a struggle... staying clean, wearing non-wrinkled clothes that match and you could answer the door in, putting on make up and fixing your hair... I bet he'd appreciate and think you're lookin' good.

But really, focus on just one or two at a time. Put them on 3x5 cards and rubber band them together. When you're pretty much done with one, cross it off, put the date finished on it and stuff it in the back of the stack.
(Or a similar visual accounting that suits you.)

You rook ma'valous!