Yeah JSC we do change with time. I think though, Heidu's husband changed overnight. As soon as she was married to him and had moved over to where he lives far from her family. That is such a hard thing.
Hugs to you Heidu.
Love Zen

<font color=blue>I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but, it comes from within. It is there all the time.--Anna Freud