How often do they share a bed? I think it is sad that a whole generation looks at the family bed as something sinister. I am in my mid 40s and I still sleep in the same bed as my mother when I go to visit her house. I have since my father died 8 years ago. She has a four bedroom house, so it is not a lack of room. As a child I slept in the same bed as my Grandmother when I stayed at her house; again there were two other bedrooms.
If this is a situation where he only has temporary custody (weekends and holidays) I absolutely understand, their time is so limited that I can see wanting to spend every second with them.
I am a bit confused about your statement that he is overly affectionate with his daughter. How is that even possible? What is overly affectionate? How do you give your child too much affection?
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