(((vintageromance)))

Yeah ~ You do have A LOT on your plate!

I know that it feels impossible to do, but you need to stand up for yourself. Because you are being taken for granted. Parents kind of do that automatically in life, as they age. But, we all have limits.

You CAN tell your mom that you're struggling with depression. I'm sure that she can relate with what your going through in life. You CAN tell her that you would be happy to help her with some things, but you don't feel comfortable having so many responsibilities set on you plate.

Ask if you can borrow her car to go see a T. Or take a bus, taxi, subway, whatever. Ask your hub if he minds taking you there. Starting with a T and setting up some ground rules for your mom and dad would really make this a lot more manageable.

Personally (while I am at it), I'd also recommend writing a letter to your father in prison. Tell him how you're feeling. Shoot ~ they barely have anything worthy to think about ~ now is a good time for you to bring these thoughts and emotions out with him! Explain how sad you are to see where he is at this age. He should be working hard, preparing for retirement. But, he's in prison paying for big mistakes that he made when he was younger. Mistakes that will affect you and your best friend for many, many years to come. Why did he do this?? Please don't send any more letters complaining about being incarcerated. He doesn't deserve to complain about his misery being jailed. He should have thought about the consequences long before committing the crimes. Be honest ~ and tell him how hurt you are!

Gosh, I hope that my post back didn't freak you out. You should have a trigger symbol on this post though ~ the SA and EA are triggers for many here (like me). Sorry if I hurt you. I didn't mean to do that at all ~ I do want you to stand up for yourself and what's right.

Gentle hugs sent your way