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Originally Posted by TonySG
For example, their is a girl at my works, who comes across as emotionally weak and has low self-esteem, I can see her flaws and I dont like them, so I just ignore her. Obviously my behaviour wont make her feel any better.
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Not kidding, with your background, you should be congratulating yourself on having this good of boundaries. Unless you are secretly attracted to her and that is why you mentioned her. You don't SOUND as messed up as you say, is what I think people are saying here (i get that too (okay quit laughing you lot) you eventually pick up a british accent here) but that doesn't mean we don't have major problems getting along in life, just because we can talk good and be quiet in school. I found some al-anon groups to be pretty helpful as "free" therapy for a while. also just hanging out here has been great, I recommend it, you can learn a lot.