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Sep 04, 2011, 09:07 PM
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Communication is key, especially now before this becomes a long time bad habit. Couples counseling might be necessary.
It might be about him, not you. Hopefully, a discussion will give answers to help you both. If he refuses to participate, send him to his MD for a full physical, and make sure you tell the nurse on the phone or talk with the MD beforehand and tell the issue. It could be physical.
It could be psychological. He might be worrying about providing in this economy?
You might be giving conflicting messages.
Were you both evenly excitable before the baby, or were you usually the one who generated the act?
Does the child interrupt you?
Could you plan a date night when he knows you expect pleasure? Maybe get a relative or good friend to watch the child? But a weekly date night is a good idea anyway, to redevelop the marriage. The focus may be on the child now, and it needs to shift back to the two of you first.
Just some thoughts.
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