so i have been dating this guy for the past month and half. when we're together it's good. but i feel so insecure. he strikes me as emotionally unavailable and shallow, but still i have a great time with him and i am trying to keep my emotions in check.

we were intimate two nights ago and i told him about some of my past ex's and what not. not sure how he took that. but he has inquired about my ex twice. weird. anyway, i am very frustrated that he has not texted or called since we were intimate. i mean he did text me to get some sleep right after i left his place. but that was it.

i just wish...he were already falling in love with me.

anyone else experience this? when you get close to a guy, he pushes you away?