I have this beautiful boy who tests high in school, but never finishes anything he starts in school; if he does finish, he'll rush through and will NEVER read the directions. He has lost 4 sweatshirts this school year, forgets his lunch/backpack each morning, can follow directions well if they are simple with few directives. He is sensitive (really sensitive), but does not ever have emotional outburst with anger or rage, ever. The one who is angry much of the time, is ME. IM frustrated beyond what words can convey and IM ashamed of the snapping and short temper I have with my child.

He is going to the Dr. today for an "attention issue"; what will they do? How can I take him to a Dr. for this and not hurt his self esteem (worse than it already is)? What is the differences in some of these medications? For three years I've been told by teachers that I should probobly have him tested for ADD (not ADHD), and for three years I have denied that MY SON could have such a problem. I cannot set him up for failure any longer and I pray that the outcome today is benneficial for all of us; Im just sad, upset, and angry.

PLEASE dont judge me for what Ive said here. I realize I havnt been very honest with my son or myself, but Im here now, facing this, and I need some direction.

Much Thanks.

Michele