Yeah I think girls are brought up to be "nice". I always had this misconception thatif you be nice to other people they will be nice to you. So I spent all my time being nice, and nicer. And then I learned in most cases it doesnt work that way. Most people just thought I was someone to take advantage of. In most cases, people should have to earn my friendship, respect etc. I dont just give it away anymore....At least in theory anyway...Im trying...