Friends aren't always going to think and act as we do or would like them to. It is a give and take... not black and white or all or nothing. Sometimes we do have to come to a decision as to whether we are getting back from a friendship what we are putting in. Did you feel you were depressed when you had this chat? As you probably know, depression can cloud your perception of everything in your life including relationships. It can make us irritable and make mountains from molehills in the mind. So I recommend taking time to think about what happened in this situation and see if you don't have a different perspective as time passes.