Have you ever had your husband visit with your therapist? PTSD can be so difficult for spouces to understand and they can become very troubled and confused by the mood changes and all the things PTSD victims address.

I know it is difficult to know your husband is doing something behind your back, obviously he uses the tobacco for a release. Be thankful he is not an alcoholic or cheating on you with someone. There are worse things, I have dealt with much worse. But I understand the issue with trust.

Try to start by having him see your therapist and before he sees your therapist make your therapist aware of your concerns.

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