Hi, s.

Welcome to the forums!

I agree with heidu and Zen, plus a couple things you said in your post also has me thinking that additional dates would be good.

First, you "enjoyed the evening and his company." So, "it was nice" but not "great". Can I ask what your expectations were for the evening? I know that for myself, if I expect the world and I don't get it, I can feel a little disappointed. I've been dating a few new people lately myself, and I've set my level of expectation at just having an okay time, and if anything more comes of it, then that's great.

Although it's probably too early to tell, do you have any sense of how this person feels? If he's looking forward to another date, then I say go for it. What's the worse that could happen? You could make a new friend. And since you feel more comfortable with friends, then who knows what could happen.

I also think that sometimes people mistake the rush of infatuation for something more, like love, when in fact it's just a high. Being head over heels for someone is fun, but not long-lasting, whereas being friends with someone can also be fun and long-lasting.

I would give it some time, have some fun activity dates, something you both enjoy and can relax, and take your time.

Best wishes...

splash