Ive started to see in my life that as I look around me there are people who talk of change and making a difference to the quality of their lives but as time passes I see that somethings will never change some people will never change, I wonder why people do this to themselves? is it an attempt to tell your life will get better? maybe a way to justify your existence? I mean I have BPD and i want to get better so next week i start with a psych, thats a change right? moving in the right direction right? where as if only spoke about it but did nothing it wouldnt be a change right? cause and effect, actions and consequences isnt that how it works, I do one thing to change another, but what happens when no matter what you change someone will always find another problem with who you are? how do I get back someones faith in who i am or what i can do? how do I take someone from the past and show them a future? Some people talk of rescue and when you reach out that hand they pull away.