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Originally Posted by Ygrec23
Ahhhh, the "vacation blues." When the cat's away the mice wonder about all kinds of things...
Yes, the vacation blues do have very much to do with "abandonment," or "attachment" or "rejection" issues. Which only means you're a normal human being. Do tell them to T, in great detail! She needs to know! You need to know that she really does care how you feel and that you make progress in therapy! Give her a chance! Take care.  |
Thanks so much for your insightful and in-depth response, I find it very valuable. I think you may well be right about the 'vacation blues'... I was trying to handle it like a big girl, but I guess some stuff slipped though! It's just really unfortunate timing, I think...
I think I need to stop trying to pick things apart. I need to trust her - 'give her a chance' - instead of trying to find excuses and reasons why this won't work.
I don't know that I'll be able to bring this up in therapy, though, it would feel like I was insulting her... which, isn't my intention. I know this issue is mine. I don't want her to think I think she's insincere, because I actually don't :/ I don't have a problem with her, at all, I just sorta have a problem with my reaction to the situation, to her email... to everything. Ohh, why do I have to overanalyse things?
