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You seem to be very insightful!  |
Thank you!
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that's not obsessing, right?
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No, I don't think so. I read your thread in the other forum and right away I told myself that you weren't obsessing at all.
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I don't want to need others! Experience has taught me that I get let down at some point. My T has told me that maybe my expectations are too high...
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I think that you are responding normally to not getting your needs met. (Again, your other thread made this clearer to me).
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I guess the fear with SI is... what if others can't stop me?
Maybe I feel it's better for me not to ask for things in the first place, that way it doesn't rule out the possibility, the hope...
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Seems to be related to the above of not getting your needs met.