Yes, my little sister finds me abit 'full-on' when I'm having discussions or arguments. I sometimes struggle to take another persons point on-board and always believe I am correct. But, this is something I am now consious of and try my best to listen to another person in a discussion.

Off the top of my head this is the only real time I remember anyone saying I try to control. But, I think doing subtle things that go unnoticed such as ignoring people for no real reason is a form of control. Considering I was extremely shy growing up, I am quite the opposite now. I guess I would just like to be able to get on with everyone. But, thats probs never going to happen!