I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 yrs now, in the past 6 months we have been having more trouble getting along. We used to get along great and I was sure he was the one for me. Lately we argue a lot and just can't get along. One of our major problems is he has a married couple that he has been friends with for several years they have always been pretty close they recently had a kid and my boyfriend is the godfather. I feel like the friends have always been obsessed with my boyfriend but now it is much worse. And my boyfriend is so obsessed with them he can't hardly go one day with out stopping by their house, they send him pics of their kid everyday, make him lunches for work call him non stop, and when he is out of cell service and can't be reached they freak out and start worrying right away. He can't do anything with out telling them ahead of time. And I have never felt like an equal around them or like his girlfriend of 3 years even, I feel like a total outsider, like they have their own little family and I am not part of it. They act like their kid is his kid too. I know he is the god father and that is very special I just didn't realize that meant he was a parent to the kid also. Am I totally nuts or is there some sort of logical and reasonable thinking here?