It seems doubtful that a good therapist will tell you what you want to hear. I know my T does not. For example, I've asked her to help me learn to not be so selfish but she said she's not going to do that because she doesn't see me as being selfish. What I want to hear is her coaching on how to be a better person but she won't buy into my perception that I need to work in that direction. So, I'd say not to worry unless or until it becomes obvious that your T is doing that and then question her about it.
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