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Old Sep 06, 2011, 05:56 PM
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(((((((Stoda)))))))

I am so sorry that you have experienced that, please do not blame yourself in any way. I did that myself and I didn't talk about it for many years. You really do need to find someone to talk to and no, you don't have to announce to anyone that you are a survivor of a rape. You are only just beginning that path, you need to go slow and be with a very supportive and understanding therapist. And you definitely need to be quietly validated and supported on a path of slowly healing and even morning it. I had to do that by myself, and I didn't really do it, I tryed to pretend it didn't happen and that was not good, I held in too many emotions not realizing it. You do have to let your feelings out and be validated.

We are always here to listen and give hugs.

Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
Stoda