Sorry that you are going through so much really hard stuff. My thoughts are with you. And remember: you have the right to ask for what you need, and to set limits with other people. Your needs are just as important of those of the other people in your life. Maybe now that your mom is in a time of transition with getting ready to leave the hospital, maybe this would be a good time to set some of those limits with her. Listen to your gut and speak up about what you are deep down willing to do and not willing to in your mother's care. Maybe the hospital can help get appropriate care arrangements in place to support your family during this time...

thinking of you,
garden gal