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Originally Posted by Soul Quake
If your delivery consists of being "mad," then his defenses will go up. He calls you controlling, yet you claim he gives them a head's up before he does anything, and they constantly phone him.
Ask him, without being irritated, or coming across as though there's ill-will behind the question, what he thinks of the relationship, and if he is okay with it. If you already know the answer, don't bother. If he does not see this as a problem, and is fine with codependency, then you know what to do.
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Thanks for some advice I definitely need it. I think I know the answer but I may try and bring it up again, I am just so irritated with all of it, that even the little things having to do with their relationship are bothering me now. I feel like it has come to a point that I am not going to get over it, and Im pretty sure he is not going to change anything because Im pretty sure he is ok with it all and I think he is kinda obsessed with these people too, actually I know he is at least from my point of view.
I feel like I am leaving out some info on the whole situation, like how bad it actually is! There is so much to tell I just cant think of everything that goes on!