I have a friend who is really messed up emotionally. She has many psych issues. She also has absolutely no verbal filters when it comes to talking to me. I feel kind of bad for her because as far as I know I'm the only one, other than her husband, that she'll talk about psych issues too because she's too embarrassed for her other friends to know.

The thing is she frequently tells me stuff, I'd just rather not know. For example, last time we were talking she told me she really misses orgasms, and how great her orgasms used to be. But that now between psych meds and menopause she just can't have them. She then tells me that lube helps a bit but it's just not the same.

I'm thinking - ok, I so do not need to know this. We're just not that close.

But I don't know how to tell her I don't want to hear about her sex life without hurting her feelings as she's very insecure.

--splitimage