girl, it doesn't surprise me one bit that this was the response that you got from your parents. How do you think that you got to where you are today with all of this? We develop emotionally while growing up with the guidance of our parents. If they have issues which keep us from healthy emotional development they aren't going to be able to help us to develop emotionally. Your therapist is the one who is going to be able to help you and any other emotionally healthy people you can find.

I would suggest not trying to get something from your parents which they aren't able to give. They aren't doing it on purpose, it is just where they are at.