Hi ~ I have to agree with Byzantine -- I'm not sure your therapist is doing you any good.
Like Byzantine said, show your therapist your post -- that way they'll know how your husband really treats you, and what YOUR feelings are about it.
This husband of yours sounds very immature -- and cruel. You don't HAVE to sit back and take this kind of treatment. You CAN survive on your own, with some determination! No one should be subjected to this kind of verbal abuse. Tell him to knock it off or get out! Your self-esteem is taking a real beating -- and your therapist needs to work with you on that. You don't DESERVE to be treated like this. It sounds like you're putting all the work into the relationship, and he (husband) is not doing anything!
Talk to your therapist about all this. Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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