how old is this kid? you don't have to be his victim.

if he's old enough to drink, smoke pot, drive and have an "attitude" with the law, then he's old enough to move out and get a job and take care of his own problems.

sorry, this sounds harsh........but you either cook or get out of the kitchen.

letting him making you his victim the first time is his fault, the second and thereafter falls on you. i've been there, so i'm not blowing smoke up your skirt. pat