I had surgery yesterday in Indianapolis which is about an hour away from me. My mom took me. She had plans to go to the casino and need to leave by 5. She left me up there all alone with no ride I had to call my husband to come get me because the casino was more important. She has been up for days. She has been really selfish lately. Its all about her. I have thought she was bipolar for years but she refuses to get help for her bipolar and her gambling problem. She said she doesnt want to take any more pills. But my question is how can you abandon your own daughter while she is in the hospital having surgery?