you may never be sure about your feelings...that is what dating is for, to experience things together with someone until the feelings become more "sure"....then you either move on or closer....either way, it's a risk. people who are not willing to risk that, stay alone.

<font color=purple> But a stranger in a strange land, he is no one:
men know him not and to know not is to care not for.
Bram Stoker, Dracula, 1897 </font color=purple>