Right here. The issue is that the son has bipolar and seriously does not see that his behavior and attitude is an issue. HE FEELS LIKE HE IS THE VICTIM. Meanwhile I won't even talk of the expenses. Crap, I had to take out another parent plus loan for the kid for this semester and he totally blows off one class that is in the early a.m. So.... I plan on finding a certified mediator and putting it all out on the table. His girlfriend sees that he is off and tries to settle him. He quit risperdol on his own claiming he could get tardive disconestia but I don't find that when I look up the drug.

My husband's father called today and hubby told this frail old man what this kid has been up to. I feel so bad for him to have another worry.

I told hubby that son should call grandpa and listen to what he has to say, it would do him well.

They are worried about us with me not working. I just can't stand that my family is making an elderly couple worry, they have their own worries.

Anyway, LMO, I get it. The how does one actually do it thing. I will wait for classes to be over and then it's off with a shove. They claim to want to live close to the land and I know ways they can do that without spending money. Let's see what they really can handle.