Thanks guys! It's totally crazy that I'm celebrating the fact that he just got suspended from his job without pay! And I'm sure if I told this story to a stranger, they'd think I was nuts.

But the fact is that he is dealing with it head-on and rationally, he stuck up for himself, and I'm not a panicky mess! I find this to be amazing. If you told me a year ago that he would be without a job and we're both feeling POSITIVE about it, I never would have believed you -- it would have felt catastrophic to us both, because the recovery from it would have felt so daunting!

Yay!