welcome. My postings are usually not what everyone else has said, so don't think i'm totally off the wall!

You don't need a degree to decide you are depressed. Anytime you can do nothing but compare yourself to others and dig deeper into the darkness, well, I think that's depression.

Have you thought about getting out of the marriage? I have often talked with people who wished someone would have suggested, or given them permission, to end the young marriage. Trying to salvage something that wasn't well thought out just doesn't work. I am sure those who are religious will disagree, but why wait a few years in misery and THEN get out? We all make mistakes. Few of us are able to identify them and correct them.

Before you consider ways out of life, take the hard steps to find a way out of the life you're in, and into another life. good wishes

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