Oh and the other thing. If you read blogs by therapists, they talk about having to "put it away" and attend to THEIR lives. ... otherwise they could not do their job effectively. They are their to help... and need to keep objective.

It does not mean that they forget their clients or don't occasionally think about them, but it means the job and THEIR lives are separate realities.

Have you ever read a file from your T? That might help you realize that this is a job to them. I was amazed when I saw my first file....