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Originally Posted by Indie'sOK
The thing I'm wondering about is that she's my former T, not my current. I would never ever friend a current therapist, no way.
I probably won't, just because there would be the possibility that I might find out something that I'd rather not know.
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I would give up any right to winning a few million on the lottery to be able to have more that a therapeutic relationship with T - nothing erotic, just a friendship. But however much I hate to admit it to myself, I believe it can never be that - we only met because of my difficulites, T has been paid to listen to me and the relationship could never be balanced and equal.
IMO (ex)therapists who try to befriend (ex) clients are abusing the position they held - this is about their needs and I think it sounds like they have some more of their own stuff to work through.