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Old Sep 12, 2011, 05:07 AM
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Hi ~ This is only going to get worse, unless he gets some counseling. Since you've given him no reason to mistrust you, his behavior is totally out of line. He's not going to stop his accusations -- in fact it may even get violent! Many abusers start out this way -- and since he's also very controlling, it wouldn't surprise me if sometime he put his hands on you.

I'd get out of this relationship -- yes, I know you care for him, but unless you want to live a nightmare, you'd better look for someone who will treat you as a person -- not as a possession. I doubt you want to live like this forever.

God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee