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Originally Posted by porcupine2
It never hurts to make a new friend but I hope you take it slowly. Just the fact that there are red flags concerning the kids is a caution sign. Talk to him and explain how you are still healing from your past relationship and would like to get to know HIM better before dragging the kids into it. Especially for the kids - it's not healthy for them to have people floating in and out of their lives either. If he's not willing to do that then I think you already know what you should do.
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Yes I totally agree, he did already mention that he would really like to get to know me and see where it goes and that if something did come of it he probably wouldnt introduce me to his kids for a while. Which I think is good, they definitely dont need people coming in and out of their lives. I know that me never having kids and him having 3 could make things very trick, but..... im just not sure what to do.