Well, you just keep posting to your hearts content.There is nothing wrong with you digesting the ingredients of this situation which has surfaced in YOUR life,as well as in your daughters life.On this website,you will encounter many opinions,and comments that you reflect on and either agree with or disagree with.But,it remains up to you whether you feel that your expressions satiate a need or concern.And,whether or not what you are concerned about is valid.I'll tell you......I have 3 sons,who've been in relationships,my mums relationships,friends marriages,etc..... things I witness in my life effect me,cause me concern,irregardless of its relevancy to me personally....ie, world events,community concerns,and even people on here.It is my nature to become concerned even in the context of someone I have never met.....so who is to say where your concerns must lay?But.....as a mum of 3 boys...two of which have had relationships of length,I might point out that experiencing life albeit painful at times....is what proceeds development/experience/and wisdom.Essentially,most relationships irregardless of their outcome teach us about ourselves and the world/people in the world with us.In that sense,there was an extent to which I interjected with my boys....as they do with me...(they are adults now lol) and then there were aspects that I thought were valuable to their process,even if painful.I stepped back.But,we all have a path....as mothers,friends,children etc,and who's to say what our roles ;as such, should appear to be.....universally.Just wanted you to feel empowered to voice any thing that you felt concerned about......jmo don't let anyone shut you down. ~W~