Girl, i am very glad you stood up for yourself...and you're not a loser. in my first marriage, i put him through law school and i did everything...after working all day...he studied when he came home. i thought that when he got out of law school that he would take some of the load off of me. not. i bought our next car and our next house. i cared for his alcoholic parents (til i got fed up and said no more) and almost lost my mind from all the pressure. i know what you're going through. i had to balance the money that i brought back from the store with the receipt.
i am very proud that you told him how it is and handed the responsibility to him. if he isn't working, the least he could do is help out and do 3/4 of the chores. xoxo pat
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