here is my question? i think this web sight is a really good tool,i have a friend that i gave this websight to,i did this today,the reason i asked if it was a mistake ,is because i see my friend almost everyday,he knows just about everything about me,he knows my finances,he helps me with the bills just orginizing them & helps me with them,at times its really hard for me to do this because i get confussed & everything becomes overwhelming for me to handel,i pay my bills he is just a support buddy,he takes me to my t when i have to go,he helpt me when i had to appley for my meds so i can get them free,he does a whole lot for me ,he know when me & my husband argue ,witch is not offten at all,so bascily he is in my life alot,sometime to much ,we go to the same doctor cause he introduced me to him,great doc i couldent ask for a better 1,he goes to the same office i go to to see my T ,sometime i feel like there is no space for myself,so when my son found this websight i thought great a good place to vent in privet,but he to has a illness ,& he puts alot on me ,he tells me im his world & without me he,he wouldent be here without me,he has no other reason to live,he has had like 45 surgeries or even more probably,i think we r very close when it comes to being friends we rely on each other alot,he more than me,my goal for giveing him this web sight was for the soul purpose so that he can vent ,get more info that someone eles can provide more than what i can ,& yes to take off some of the burden that i face ,but when i say burden i dont mean that to be rude just dont know the word im looking for,the thing that concerns me is now he has accuess to all my thoughts ,like my real personal ones,sorta like this post im doing now?or if there is a issue between me & my husband that i dont want him to know,see he is 60yrs & im 42 & he being older thinks he is always right ,but im just as stubbern as he is,i think it would be neet if we can go into a chat room at night,instead of texing each other,so there r good points & there are bad points ,i guess the saying goes you gotta take the good with the bad i guess,i think it would be a greater gift than inconvence i guess,if things get to were its to much i guess i can just change my screen name?i dont know any thoughts on this one ?