I don't mean to offend or minimize so if this does please just ignore.

In numerology they would add the one and the three and it becomes "4"... the "qualities" associated around the number 4 are "practical, detail-oriented, organized, orderly, systematic, methodical, precise, reliable, punctual, dependable, honest, trustworthy."

Usually in numerology any double digits are added together but 11 (9+1+1) is considered the "master" number and is very special.

I know when I get stuck on something (I am not OCD but do get stuck in things like OCD for periods of time) it helps if I can talk to myself about as many other ways to think about what is going on as possible.

Sorry, know it's weird but I thought I would put it out there.