I think it is a gift you gave him. It's like you just brought your friend to Disneyland - he may want to ride the first few rides with you, but eventually - well maybe that's not the best example! he might not even like it here, my friends won't even l0ok at it. so I think he will either make it his own, as we all do, and not get hung up on what you post, or maybe not at all. but I would probably only trust my T with my name.