ok here we go! so i got married a year ago when i found out i was pregnant, i have been dating my now husband for four years. anyway i recently found out he has been dating another woman for the past 5 years and she is also married. i confronted him about it and he said he is in love with her and that he cares about me. she writes me and tells me everything that they do. he says there done and he wants me to wait and see if he will ever reach to the point of loving me! but i dont think thats fair for me im hurt and he doesnt want me to be he acts like he doesnt care and that drives me crazy. so i throw these mini tantrums to get attention and hope he would stay around but he always leaves me. he goes home to his mom and she does not even talk to me either she says i treat her son so bad!!!!!!! am i wrong for feeling like im loosing my mind!!!!!!!!!