Thank you

When I do go over the house, I do play with the baby. But the baby is very spoiled. She cries whenever she doesn't get something she wants. She constantly wants to run around the house and most of Sara's time is spent catering towards this baby. I don't mind being 'surrogate father' or even accepting those responsibilities.

Also, Sara's parents speak little English. There is a communication barrier. We can communicate but they chose for the most part to speak their native language and most of the time, I just don't know what's going on. So while I don't mind travelling the distance to get to Sara, my time there is spent dealing with a crying child, sitting there awkwardly because the parents aren't very talkative, and also due to her job/child, when Sara and I are 1 on 1 she just wants to cuddle and not talk anyways because she is tired.