After swim, my friend and I went for coffee. She got a cookie, I didn't, not hungry, I had a big lunch. then instead of having her drive me home, I just went to the grocery store from the coffee shop, and took the bus home, so had a little walk. I was going to ask her to drive me up there on her way home but was shy to ask (after all, i've only known her 30 years! doh!) so i'm glad she wanted coffee. Then there was a family caught in the rain, little girl shrieked, it was so cute musical really, as they passed by me I gave the mom the umbrella out of my backpack, I had a hoodie, the two kids fit under it with her just fine. it was strange I realized afterward I could RELATE to her - I think that's because of my new friends here.