I agree with Mead and McNeil,
Yes some people get stuck in an I am sorry for me, please be sorry for me agenda.
And I do recognize that it is important to express a struggle,yes, a struggle has to be identified in order for someone to acknowledge it and then begin to work on ways to resolve it. So a group strategy plan for healing methods is very helpful. I personally have difficulty going to forums when a presentation of this is bad, this is bad, this is bad takes place with no good input. I would rather not state anything and stay away until I can find a helpful tool to throw into that negetive process in an effort to break it up. I don't like the way those forums can get hypnotic in a sense, it is almost giving permission to continue to feel bad, feel bad, feel bad.

Open Eyes