http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...ing-in-therapy
See if this full link works? I really like this blogger - all of his posts (and I think I have read every single one!) have offered insight of sorts into the whole messy journey of therapy. He has another great article - 21 tips for clients in psychotherapy (linked in the first article) that is also helpful.
Hope it works this time, if not, PM me and I'll see what I can figure out!