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Hi ~ I agree with "strongerman" -- you don't have to play by his rules.
You're an adult -- you are able to make your OWN CHOICES about things. You don't have to put yourself in his company if you choose not to. Avoid him, and just mingle with the rest of the family. They understand your father, and they feel the same as you do. You don't have to make excuses for him, you don't have to subject yourself to his abuse -- just stay clear.
He obviously needs help, but it sounds like he's not agreeable to it -- so that's not your fault. You have your own life to live -- you don't have to be under his thumb anymore!
I wish you the best -- I'm glad you're seeing a therapist. It sounds like you're making a lot of progress. Take care and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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