First, if you believe that you have a problem with alcohol & drugs, you probably HAVE. I think I would address this issue quickly!! Many times we use these things to "numb" our emotions & pain. Talk to your therapist about the drugs & alcohol -- it could save your life !!
I'm glad you're in therapy -- these 'short term' relationships could have something to do with the past -- with your childhood. When we discover some of our "traits" we are better able to figure out what's behind it -- and your therapist will guide you thru it. When I understood the why's and wherefore's, I was better able to make corrections. Therapy has been very helpful to me.
I wish you the best. Take care & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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