Hi Colleen,
I am so terribly sorry for thinking you were a dude!! I saw the thomas and assumed which as usual makes an ***** out of me, or just me in this case!

lol Please forgive me..
My caring does not change nor my concern...and I hope that especially since your h says that it is a need and not a want, that you will continue to go in whatever capacity you can and to reach out however you can for continued support from whatever resources you can muster...you are definitely worth every bit of it. Hang in there and let me know how you are..feel free to PM if you'd like.
Warmest thoughts and loving huggles for a very special bear,
Wysteria Blue