Hey Wendy,
I definately understand that doctors usually diagnose only for practicality's sake and to give a vague label to a person, but like you said it *is* SO frustrating for someone to either not tell you what is wrong with you, or to either tell you it is something you feel it is not. But more than anything thw withholding is the worst. I feel the same way as you about wanting to know my diagnosis, I've just been too passive and avoident (as is my nature) when it comes to demanding a diagnosis. I don't know why, I cant imagine it can be any worse than everything I think of.

<3 Kelly<3